The article over at Person Missing is discussing the viewpoint that if people read all about muggings and attacks, that it instills a certain amount of fear in people. People end up thinking, "I hope I don't get mugged". The articles position goes on to state that the "unbiased ear" inside our heads will not hear the "don't" but will hear the "I" and "mugged" and connect these two words. It is all about the "Law of Attraction".
The thought remembered by ones subconscious is that it connects "I" and "mugged". This results in our thoughts leading to action. That is, we get mugged. This is a theory whereby if we focus on negatives, the "do nots" and "don'ts" that our subconscious only hears what we say without those words.
This is also a theory common in the 'make money' industry. Thinking "I do no want to be poor" is equal to thinking "I want to be poor". The money making experts insist we change our thoughts to "I want to be wealthy". This is a much more constructive and beneficial thought process than thinking about opposing the negatives. This simple difference is purported to be a powerful attitude and life changing way of thinking. More on this later...
From the article:
Let me give you an example. You read the newspaper. There are articles about crime and bad news and negativity all over the pages. You do not think about this and step back and say “I want love in my life”. You read it all and think “I hope I don’t ever get mugged. ”
Imagine a massive ear listening to your thoughts – an unbiased ear. The ear will not hear the word “don’t” because the ear is unbiased and does not judge – we add the judgement. The ear hears “hope” and “mugged”.Note right here that the example given is a negative thought response... It goes on:
Over the next weeks and months you continue to read the newspapers every day, and for some reason all the articles about muggings and violent crimes catch your eye. Every time you read such an article, you think a similar thought, for example “More muggings – I wonder who is next. ” The massive ear hears “muggings” and “next”. Or you think “one of these days someone close to me will get mugged” and the massive ear hears “someone” and “me” and “mugged”.Similar things are written about people with a poor money mentality. And it goes on:
Because your thoughts are so full of avoiding being mugged, that is all you think about. You see potential muggers around every corner and cling to your purse or keep ensuring that everything is still in your pocket. And potential muggers pick up on the waves of fear that emanate from you and get closer to you, because you reflect their reality as well.
And then one day you get mugged.This is all used as an example of how reading the newspaper too much will lead you to eventually become a victim of crime. Your fear will become a self fulfilling prophesy. The article is implying that it is simply better to not read about these things. This is the context which made me shake my head in disbelief and frustration. This is a stupid and ill-informed response to recommend to the readers of that article. Let me explain why...
The author is implying that anyone who reads such articles will have the mental response of that presented. That is incorrect. The response the article presents is indeed a poor response. That does not mean that it is the only response. A trained response is a much better option than ignoring the threat of being mugged. Ignoring it will not make it go away.
Ignorance is Not Bliss
A trained response involves taking note of how such an attack happened. If we read about a mugging in a newspaper article, there are usually insights into how the attack happened and what the victim did wrong. The location and time of day are two common aspects that are usually included in news articles about muggings. Take note of those. If they are no surprise, it reinforces your current training. If they are new, take note and add it to your knowledge base to draw on when in those environments. Learning from these news stories, which are based off real attacks, will greatly increase the accuracy and relevancy of your awareness. By knowing how attacks happen, that knowledge can provide us with experiences to draw on and allow us to more accurately know what to look for. It sharpens our awareness and deepens our knowledge database.
Now for a moment I quickly want to touch on the money making mentality I mentioned earlier. The gurus say that if you think that you do not want to be poor, the mind only thinks of the bit about being poor. It doesn't take any notice of the don't part. Instead, a more positive thought response is to think instead, that I want to becme rich, or I want to become wealthy. The gurus say it is a more positive thought process. And my opinion on the matter is that it IS a much more positive thought process. The gurus say that process helps attract money to the more posistive people who have positive feelings about money. And I will have to take their word for that one. Certainly I think it is a better thought process than thinking I do not want to be poor.
What the hell does all of that have to do with muggings? I want to differentiate that positive thought process (as it is quite common), from the realities of muggings. The process encouraged by the article promotes instead of thinking that muggings are bad and I hope I don't get mugged (which is a bad thought response), to instead think about bringing more love into your life. The heart means well here but it is a totally fanciful and dreamy response which has no effect on reality. The alternative offered by the article is perhaps an even worse responce than a negative response. Back to the subject at hand...
There is Positive and then there is Dreamland
This article is suggesting that everyone who reads such articles responds with fear. Certainly, some do. Instead of telling the reader of the article to simply ignore such fear inducing news stories, it would be much more beneficial to show the reader some ways to improve from such knowledge, rather than imply that such terrible stories of muggings are so terrible and frightening that we should not read them. If you keep reading them, you will get mugged! Wrong wrong wrong!
It is also implying that it is somehow best to ignore the reality and to instead harness unrealistic responses and processes as a form of solution. Misguided and indeed, dangerous.
The negative response such as "I hope I don't get mugged", is indeed a poor response. Instead of telling people to think of including more love into ones life... an article would be doing its readers a much better service if it was to inform its readers of a better, more productive and effective response to a real danger, even if in the grand scheme of things, it is remote.
Such a response would be to LEARN from the news article. Think of things such as:
- What time of day was it? Early hours of the morning, late afternoon...
- What day of the week was it? Saturday night, tuesday morning...
- Where was it? Home, work, carpark, street...
- One attackers or more? This is important as well as it determines what we are to look for when observing for a threat. Is that person on the other side of the road actually with this suspicious looking cat up ahead...
- Was the victim aware at the time or not? Many news articles contain this information if you are looking for it. Was the attacker caught by surprise? A very important component. Many victims were looking at the ground or were drunk or were arguing with the attacker...
Low Tech Combat has previously provided an analysis of numerous news stories from which to learn from. Some of them include:
Can you be stabbed with a knife and not know it?
Man attacked by 6 muggers
69 Year old ex wrestler fights of attackers
Look at these and other news articles as an opportunity to study some real self defence. And the best thing of all is that it is not a scenario or a role playing session. This is a real attack! Learn from it!
It is an opportunity, not a problem.
Indeed, a negative and fearful response is bad. But thinking about love will not stop an attacker. Learning from the real event and using our brains is the best form of self defence. Knowledge aims to avoid altogether any type of physical attack as we become aware of the dangerous places and times and our awareness is more tuned.
I am interested in your thoughts on the subject. Leave your opinion in the comments below.
NOTE: At the time of publishing, the linked site at the beginning of the article seems to be down.
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